My wife and I are currently expecting our 7th amazing child from God, and I often get one of two responses. The first is the more common, how many kids are you going to have? The second is rare and today in meeting, another coach he expressed how cool it was that my wife and I did not stop at two or three like everyone else.
The reality is this, since deciding to take my faith seriously and stop going through the motions, "I" has not been a part of my vocabulary. Don't get me wrong, all of us will still struggle at times with selfishness but we should strive our best to B3rd and always put God and others above our own interest.
Living a life where you depend on him to guide your decisions and not your own personal desires is freeing. The more often I take control, the more problems I create. When we let God have the full control, everything seems to just make sense. This does not mean it will be easy, it just means life has a comfortable purpose with God.
We should be learning this when we participate in team sports. Whether you coach, parent, or play, removing the "I" and "Me" will make for a better team. A player that is looking outward and trying to make teammates better has more fun. The coach who exists for the sake of the kids, that coach has a purpose and joy in what they do. Parents who can be just as excited for the success of someone else's kid, that's a B3rd parent who's organization feeds off their positive energy.
My challenge to you is, remove the "I" and "Me" statements from your life and see what happens. Wake up tomorrow and live for God and others. This will fill you up and provide you a satisfaction that can't be purchased.
Coach Field
Founder of B3rd Athletics